- chat_core_connect_from_invite: add TOPO_SOCKMETA4 (id=0, UNKNOWN, UNKNOWN)
so cm_has_direct_ip/cm_start_phase_direct can match socket_id=0 addr
- conn_mgr: cm_bg_ping_timer_cb reads real addr from nq->node->v4_addrs
instead of NULL; added cm_bg_ping_noop_cb per required etcp_send_ping_to_socket
- invitedialog: set both QClipboard::Clipboard and Selection on Linux/X11