Refresh both AGENTS guides and clarify module purpose, usage, ownership, threading, return values and wire formats in headers. Remove the unused timeout_heap freed_count field and unimplemented getter.
- u_async.c: process immediate_queue BEFORE epoll_wait in uasync_poll
- stcp_link.c: defensive NULL etcp_conn/etcp_link in stcp_link_close
- utun_instance.c: move stcp_server_list_destroy_all to Phase J (before ETCP),
add deferred drain in both Phase J and L
- stcp.h/c: STCP_HS_ENC_CLIENT 6→38, STCP_HS_ENC_SERVER 7→39,
exchange ed25519_pubkey in both handshake directions
- etcp_connections.c: copy peer_ed25519 from STCP to ETCP_CONN in
etcp_link_enter_ready_tcp; guard link->etcp in tcp_link_close_cb
- chat_sync.c: fix lk->conn NULL dereference for TCP links
- test_stcp.c: update stcp_server_create/stcp_client_connect callsites
- tools/chat_tcp_test: change transport udp→tcp
- node_put/node_update_verified: set online=1 on INSERT (nodes created when conn is UP)
- channel_peers_all: fix peer_needed calculation (atl byte was missing)
- cs_send_channel_join: add proto byte to address serialization matching all parsers
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