Bound upload cache growth and reject stale transfer completions

tools/chatgui/tests/test_avatars.cpp

@@ -13,6 +13,7 @@ extern "C" {
 #include "chat/chat_member.h"
 #include "chat/member_sync.h"
 #include "routing_layer/topo_group.h"
+#include "routing_layer/topo_node_sqlite.h"
 #include "member_files/member_files.h"
 #include "json_flat.h"
 #include "mem.h"