sqlite: add cache_size/mmap_size/temp_store PRAGMAs to db_sync and topo_group — 159x insert speedup, fix test_chat_sync_stress timeout

tools/chatgui/transport/utun_node.cpp

@@ -117,6 +117,7 @@ QList<NodeAddr> UtunNode::getInviteAddresses(DbManager* db) {
                 while (link) {
                     if (link->link_state == 3 && link->nat_type == NAT_TYPE_DIRECT) {
                         NodeAddr a;
+                        a.socketId = link->conn ? (int)link->conn->sock_id : 0;
                         struct sockaddr_storage* sa = &link->remote_addr;
                         if (sa->ss_family == AF_INET) {
                             struct sockaddr_in* sin = (struct sockaddr_in*)sa;
@@ -149,6 +150,7 @@ QList<NodeAddr> UtunNode::getInviteAddresses(DbManager* db) {
             else { sock = sock->next; continue; }
 
             NodeAddr a;
+            a.socketId = (int)sock->sock_id;
             if (sa->ss_family == AF_INET) {
                 struct sockaddr_in* sin = (struct sockaddr_in*)sa;
                 a.family = 4;